Are You Ready for REAL Healing After Surviving Narcissistic Abuse?


If it’s time to live life on your own terms, you’re in the right place!

 

(Don’t skip this video!  It’s worth the watch!)

You deserve to live life on your terms.

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Acknowledging that you’ve endured narcissistic abuse is difficult.

 

But what’s even MORE difficult is trying to unlearn all the guilt, shame, and fear that has been ingrained inside of you.

 

And maybe you still find yourself struggling, even after going through what seems like endless therapy and meditation.

I know what it's like to:


  • Ruminate over all the things you think you should have done differently

  • Hear the narc’s shame-smearing voice in the back of your head

  • Feel invalidated by health professionals who don’t quite understand what you’re going through

  • Fear that you can’t trust yourself to make your own decisions

What if I told you that you’re NOT alone?

 

What you’re experiencing is completely normal for survivors of narcissistic abuse and trauma...and it’s not your fault!  

 

But you are NOT doomed to repeat this cycle.  Healing is within reach.  (And I’m not talking about years upon years of therapy, meditation, chakra alignments, or whatever else other people are throwing at you)

 

What you really need is a roadmap with the right tools, techniques, and processes to navigate to the other side--from someone who has already done it!

Introducing "Let's Get Your Shift Together"

Group Coaching

In the course of 12 weeks, you can learn how to have life back on YOUR terms

 

In this group coaching program, you’ll learn everything you need to heal from narcissistic abuse and finally move forward in your life.


Using my 4-step methodology: Learn+Unlearn, Release, Rebuild, and Maintain, I’ll show you the proven strategies I’ve implemented not just in my own life, but in the lives of the many survivors I’ve coached over the years.

How does it work?


I've broken my 4-step method into 9 separate modules over the course of 12 weeks so you can get the maximum benefits and do this inner work at a better pace than trying to do it all at once. 

MODULE 1: How a Narcissist's Mind Works

In this module you'll learn: 

  • What the narcissist's main goals are

  • Why they do what they do

  • The 3 phases of the narcissistic abuse cycle

  • How a narcissist uses your emotions against you in order to gain control over you

  • What to expect when you set a boundary with a narcissist

  • Assertiveness techniques to use (if you have to communicate with the narc)

MODULE 2: Understand & Unlearn Your Conditioning

In this module you'll learn: 

  • How you were conditioned by the narcissist’s tactics to accept their behaviour as “normal”

  • How to begin unlearning this conditioning

  • The difference between “letting go” and “forgiveness”

  • You’ll also get tools on how to begin the unlearning process, which gets continued in the release stage

MODULE 3: Emotions + Mindbody Connection

In order to release, you need to know WHAT you’re releasing - and that is repressed emotions.

In this module you'll learn: 

  • How repressed emotions happen

  • The mindbody connection and how it can lead to chronic physical pain

  • Pain science + neuroplasticity crash course (this isn't "woo woo" junk science, it's legitimate science!)

  • How to start “doing the work” without retraumatizing yourself

  • Tools to work through this emotionally in a way that actually works

MODULE 4: Identifying + Releasing Blocks

In this module you'll learn: 

  • How to identify what your blocks are

  • Unpacking these emotional blocks + limiting beliefs that no longer serve you

  • How to release all this from your mind-body system (so you can literally take the weight of the world OFF your shoulders)

  • How to deal with overwhelm and resistance towards inner work

  • How to manage your inner critic

  • Even more tools to do the inner work safely in a way that won't re-traumatize you

MODULE 5: Ripping Off the Band Aid

In this module you'll learn: 

  • What releasing emotions is all about

  • Recognizing what releasing repressed emotions actually feels like for you

  • How to handle any overwhelm you might face not only in the program but in life in general

  • How to recognize when you gaslight yourself, and what to do about it

  • Self-soothing techniques + tools to ground yourself

MODULE 6: Building on a Solid Foundation

In this module you'll learn: 

  • How to identify how far you've come

  • How to start rebuilding your confidence and self-esteem on a solid foundation

  • Self-acceptance techniques and exercises

  • Self-love techniques and exercises

MODULE 7: Self-Esteem Building

In this module you'll learn: 

  • Why self-affirmations won’t work if you haven’t done the inner work first

  • Strategies to build up your self esteem and confidence

  • How to begin to trust yourself and your gut

  • Self-validation and affirming yourself (and believing it!)

  • Rediscovering things that you're passionate about

  • What “fail on purpose” means, and why it’s important

MODULE 8: Your Permission Slip is Here

In this module you'll learn: 

  • How to give yourself permission to be YOU! (Without needing external validation from anyone and without second guessing yourself)

  • Why it’s normal to resist happy feelings

  • How to allow yourself to feel happy and enjoy the things you abandoned because of narcissistic abuse

  • How to harness the belief that you are, in fact, worthy of a good life

  • How to set and keep boundaries for the future

  • The best way to learn assertive behavior

  • Renewed, authentic, hope for the future (not that false hope nonsense)

MODULE 9: Implementation + Maintenance

In this module we come back full circle. Here's what it's all about: 

  • Implementing everything you’ve learned into your day-to-day life

  • How to keep doing the work beyond this program moving forward so you will be equipped to handle whatever life throws at you

  • What to do if limiting beliefs show up in the future

  • How to maintain all the hard work you've done this whole time

In addition to these 9 modules,
signing up for the program gives you immediate access to:

Live group coaching calls

 

Meet with me every week for 12 weeks.

 

 

Private Slack community channel

Reach out to me in between calls, and also connect with fellow survivors throughout the duration of the program.

Downloadable worksheets & resources

These resources go along with each module to help you do the inner work as you go along.

 

Here's what others have said about the program:


Having a narcissistic parent and the inevitable toxic relationships that follow, its hard to make sense of anything. When people ask me what it's like, I say "Imagine you're Alice walking through Wonderland. You know nothing makes sense but you have everyone around you saying YOURE the crazy one and this is how it's supposed to be. So you end up slowly losing your mind when you KNOW something is wrong". Adriana helps you get out of Wonderland and back to reality. The inner work she tells you to do WORKS. I've been in therapy and coaching for YEARS and she is the only one who has ever been able to validate and relate to my experience. I'm out of Wonderland, I am no longer Alice or Harley Quinn. I finally am finding out who I AM outside of the narcissistic crazy making and I couldn't be more grateful. Trust her, trust the process, do the work. Alot of the stuff she says in the beginning will not make total sense but trust and go with it. When it starts clicking you will be unstoppable

Ariel

When I first started working with Adriana I had left a very toxic family and had a lot of anger, stress and resentment towards them. I also had significant digestion problems and I was keen to work on restoring my health. Thanks to the tools Adriana provided,  I was able to free myself of my suppressed emotions and I feel so much lighter and calm where I no longer have any resentment towards my narcissistic family and I feel way more indifferently towards them and my digestion issues are healing thanks to the loss of tension in my gut and other nutritional work I’ve done on the side. I cannot thank Adriana enough as I feel like I have so much inner peace back and it’s allowed me to feel so much healthier and happier in my life. 

 

 

 

 

 

Ken

The Mind-Body connection is a powerful reality that many folks never come to realize or accept. Thankfully, Coach Adriana applies a straightforward and no-nonsense approach with her clients to help guide us in our understanding of how the mind affects the body and vice versa: healing the mind is healing the body. Healing the body is healing the mind. And at the center of it all is the essential work of processing our emotions and releasing our trauma. These are all things that I have learned about myself (and all of humanity) while working with Adriana and engaging her material. This stuff literally saved her own life, and it could possibly save yours too. I highly recommend. 

 

 

David

I decided to start coaching after Adriana's workshop which helped me to see the light at the end of the tunnel in a time when I thought nothing can ever change and I almost gave up. And then it changed! I can't be more grateful. She understands those things that many people you've talked to can't get their heads around. She gives you insights and tools as the situation develops and is genuinely happy about the progress. All that with a great sense of humour, which helps a lot to gain some distance and motivation. I would never imagine that after such a short time my mindset will shift so much and I wasn't expecting to get rid of my back pain as a "side effect". I recommend her support to those willing to work towards healing! 

Lu

Hey I'm Adriana

Founder of Let's Get Your Shift Together

After nearly 3 decades of enduring narcissistic abuse and 4 years of dealing with severe chronic pain - I had to make the choice to embark on my own healing journey. 

 

Doing my inner work not only helped me heal from the physical pain I went through, but it also helped me heal from the narcissistic abuse I endured from being raised by a narcissistic mother, other close relationships, and even colleagues/toxic workplaces (they were everywhere!).

 

My own healing journey inspired me to become a life coach so I could help other people. My certifications include: 

  • Certified Professional Life Coach
  • Certified Mind Body Fitness Coach
  • Certified Stress Management coach

My goal is to empower as many survivors of narcissistic abuse as I can, and to teach them how to heal, set boundaries, and live life on their own terms! 

This program is for you if:


  • You have suffered abuse from a narcissistic person.

  • You’re tired of walking on eggshells and making decisions based solely on someone else’s needs.

  • You’re ready to take back your life, and start living on your own terms.

  • You want to be released from the negative self-talk that has been ingrained inside of you for so long.

  • You’re willing to put in the time and effort that it takes to heal the right way.

This program is NOT for you if:


  • You’re looking for a quick or overnight “fix” for your trauma.

  • You’re not willing to dig deep and put in the work that it’s going to take to find TRUE healing.

  • You aren’t ready to become a more confident, empowered version of yourself.

Here's a quick recap of what you'll have access to immediately after signing up "Let's Get Your Shift Together"

  • Lifetime access to all 9 modules - (even when they’re updated!) ($1500 value)

  • A community of like-minded survivors and the opportunity to even make a friend, or several (Priceless)​

But I’m not going to charge anywhere NEAR that.  

 

I want this program to be accessible to anyone who needs true healing in their life.  

 

That’s why I’m letting it go for MUCH less.

Additional payment plans:

3 Month Payment Plan

($797/Month for 3 months)

 6 Month Payment Plan

($399/Month for 6 months)

Frequently asked question


I’ve already done so much therapy and that didn’t help, why should I even consider this?

What if I have to stay in contact with the narcissist (i.e. shared custody of a kid, legal obligation, business partners, only next of kin, etc) won’t that stop me from healing?

I’ve already done so much therapy and that didn’t help, why should I even consider this?

Will I really be fully healed after 12 weeks?

What if the narcissist is my mother?

Additional payment options:

3 Monthly Payments

($797/Month)

 6 Monthly Payments

($399/Month)


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